Back in August, after 2.5 years as a sometimes-vegan-pescatarian, I went back to eating meat.
It wasn’t an easy decision to make, but it just felt like the right thing. I was starting culinary school, cooking lots of unusual things, and exploring new foods. I’d never missed meat per se, but I did miss the convenience and lack of thought in being an omnivore. I wanted to be open to everything, from kimchi and kale to goose liver and hamburgers.
Around that time, I also stopped blogging my meals on a regular basis, so I never talked much about the change. That was actually good for me- it took the focus off of eating to blog, and brought it back to just…eating. I think in many cases, exposing your food choices on the internet has an influence on what you eat, either for better or for worse. Over these past few months, I’ve noticed a lot of surprising changes in my diet and the way I feel…mostly for the better. Here goes.
I’m less picky.
I have never considered myself a picky eater. Even when I was mostly vegan, I’d eat anything put in front of me that fell into that category, no matter how weird. That said, when I started to eat everything again I realized how annoying it had been to constantly scrutinize menus or ask what was in something. Now, if it sounds good, smells good, looks good, or is free, I’m in. It’s made me more appreciative of good food in general, whether it’s a spicy sausage from a food truck or a raw salad from One Lucky Duck.
I feel fuller all the time.
Admittedly, I was never a perfect vegetarian/pescatarian/vegan/what-have-you. I failed at the whole bean-grain combination thing, and I ate a decent amount of fake stuff like Boca burgers, texturized vegetable protein and non-dairy milks. That said, I never realized how freaking unsatiated I was all the time until I started eating animal products and finally felt really full. Even when a meal doesn’t contain meat, I don’t get ravenous waiting for the next dining opportunity. My former diet was pretty carb-heavy, so that could have been the culprit, but it’s still an interesting thing to notice.
Meat tastes better than I remember it.
It wasn’t hard for me to stop eating animals, because at the point that I made that decision all of my meat came from Healthy Choice deli meat and dry chicken breasts. Ew. I’m still not a meathead, and I probably go about 4 days a week without eating it at all, but damn…prepared the right way, it’s delicious. Actually, I prefer red meat to poultry. Burgers all the way. (If my brother is reading this, he’s probably crying tears of pride. We ARE related, after all!!)
It’s made me let go of a lot of the “food rules” I had.
This is more of a personal thing, but I think my decision to give up meat was a borderline orthorexic behavior- I’d heard it wasn’t healthy, so I just cut it out completely, rather than learning to eat it in moderation (I had the word “moderation” in reference to food, but I’ll let it slide) or when I actually craved it. It made me obsessive, in a bad way. I’m only speaking for myself here, but cutting out entire food groups is tricky business, both psychologically and physically. Now, there’s nothing off-limits, and while I still feel better about some choices than others (helloooooooo late-night Christmas cookie feasts and nary a salad for weeks), I have a healthier mindset about eating in general. It’s all just food.
Meat isn’t intrinsically unhealthy for you.
There’s research to back up just about any claim- that meat causes heart disease, that veganism causes malnutrition, that tomatoes exacerbate arthritis, that kale gives you kidney stones. Thinking too much about it can make anyone crazy, and I don’t think that food in its whole, natural state is going to make you less “healthy” when eaten in balance with all the other food groups. If I want meat, I want meat…and I think the real stuff contains a whole lot more health benefits than a Boca burger or Tofurky. And to be honest, I feel healthier now than ever. That’s trite, but true.
The ethics are still a gray area for me.
It’s no secret that meat isn’t produced ethically in this country, and that’s not something I’m okay with, but it’s something I’ve learned to live with. In an ideal world, I’d always get my meat from a local, free-range, organic farm, but this world is far from perfect. When purchasing meat for myself, I always buy the organic, free-range stuff, but if I’m in a situation where that’s not available, it’s okay. I’m respectful of the life of what I’m eating, but I don’t need one more thing to stress myself out over.
(By the way, I know I shouldn’t have to defend myself, but I don’t want to offend anyone with these thoughts. I’m cool with people eating whatever the heck they want, whether that includes meat or not- or anything else. Be proud of the choices you make, and respectful of others’. Feel free to respectfully disagree!)
Have you ever made a big dietary change and noticed a difference in the way you felt, either mentally or physically? What’s your dietary path of choice?
Love love love this post! You put your thoughts into words very well. I’ve been curious about your recent return to meat and your thoughts on it for a while, so this was great to read. Can’t wait to hear about the externship!
LOVE this post! Glad to see that you are eating what makes YOU happy. The great thing about being open is that you do have options to eat vegan some of the time, but if you want a burger, you can have one! Food rules can get hard to handle. I definitely agree with you in the parts about ethics. I do not like the way meat is produced in the country, but there are definitely better ways to get meat and animal products. Once again, great post and thank you for sharing this!
First of all, you don’t have to defend your choices, no. But I want to thank you for putting this out there. I’ve been a vegetarian for two years but have been struggling with possibly putting some meat back into my life. It is so nice to know that there are people out there with the same viewpoints as me.
I feel like in the vegetarian community there is so much judgement of those who go back to eating meat that it’s almost a pressure to stay “in”. I agree that everyone should be proud of the choices they make, and be comfortable with them as well as respectful of others’ choices.
The ethics of eating meat are the last thing I’m hanging on to. I’ve already learned that there are ways to be an unhealthy vegetarian as well as an unhealthy omnivore. It’s about balance (I like that better than moderation!). Thank you for your thoughts on ethics; it is really helping my decision to learn how others view it.
So true. I think there’s judgment from others regardless of what “camp” you fall into- I got criticized for not eating meat, and I’ve gotten comments (in person, not really on the blog) from people about how I probably wasn’t a “good” vegetarian if I feel healthier with meat. There’s pressure from a lot of groups, and the only way to deal with it is to eat for YOURSELF, not anyone else.
I love this post! I went from being strictly vegan for the past two years to being vegetarian this past semester. It is SO liberating. I finally decided to go back to vegetarianism when my internship had me out at fancy events where it would have felt inappropriate to ask about the gorgeous presentation of food in front of me. And to be able to share a late-night pizza with my best friends or get something other than sorbet from Coldstone is great. I’ve stopped obsessing about what I’m eating and I’ve never felt better.
Hahaha, so true about the pizza and ice cream. Now I can just share something with people, instead of ordering my own special stuff.
I’m glad you’re doing what works for you and feeling good about it. I’ve been pescatarian for a few years now and I’ve debated bringing meat back into my diet for several reasons but I’m nervous I won’t like it because I never really LOVED it before giving it up. It’s nice to hear that it actually tastes better to you now.
Great post lady!
Love that you wrote this post! I was a pescatarian for about 3 years, and then went back to eating meat. I never craved meat, and I can still go some days without eating it. But lean, grilled, chicken and turkey keeps me fuller longer and I have actually gotten more toned. Great post!
I, truly, admire you, Gabriella. Just from reading your blog for the past year and a half + I’ve seen you grow, mature and discover who “Gab” is, as opposed to who you ‘should’ be or strive to be. I have only the most respect for you and believe that every decision we make leads us to who we’re meant to be.
I’ve written about my dietary habits/vegetarianism countless times and find that I have been able to stick to my reasons, validating my beliefs. I do what I am comfortable with, and for that, I am content and at peace.
Thanks for being so honest, and so REAL. No one should ever judge you for your morals, beliefs and decisions. (including yourself)
You rock, girlfriend.
Loved this comment. Thank you
Thank you Gabriela for this very honest post. I agree with what you said and have been on a similar path myself. I’m looking forward to reading more of these candid posts. We need more people like you on the internet!
I love this post!….. That is all I have to say about that.
The points that you made make complete sence to me and I love your honesty with all of us, and yourself (sometimes that can be the hardest part)! Have a wonderful day!
Really great post! It’s very interesting to hear your reasons for eating meat once again. Personally, I’m a vegetarian, but not a particularly stringent one at that. Growing up, I never really ate meat and don’t really like it, frankly. It’s definitely good to hear that you feel this decision has had a positive impact in your life, if it works for your, go with it!
Awesome post,girl!
I’ve been a vegetarian for about five years before I lately decided to start eating meat again. It was a struggle,I don’t want to deny that,because I really love animals and became a vegetarian due to ethical reasons. My body was constantly craving some chicken and fish though,and since I know I am NOT healthy; underweight and suffering from nutritional deficiencies,I realized I possibly NEEDED it urgently…
Now,I feel a lot better physically; I feel stronger and my hair has become more shiny,too.
I don’t know if I will ever switch back to a vegetarian diet some time,but for now,I think it’ll be better and healthier for me this way.
This post resonates for me. I would consider myself pescatarian at the moment, though I don’t worry about things like bacon pieces here and there. I wonder if I should drop the label, though. I think it means more to others than to me. I’ve always said that if I really wanted meat I’d have it, but the thing is I haven’t wanted it in ages. I guess that’s a sign that I don’t NEED to bring it back into my life, but sometimes I wonder if I could be more satisfied by my meals, as opposed to being hungry every 2 hours. But I like your perspective and it feels similar to my own. Food for thought, literally.
Hi! I’m a regular reader of your blog but I think this may be my first time commenting. I really can relate to this post. I ate meat all my life, and then decided to become vegetarian my sophomore year of college. My diet was “healthy” but not very balanced, as I would eat a lot of vegetables and grains and meat substitutes, but I would always feel a bit off - more tired than usual. I’m not sure exactly what I was missing, but I was really craving meat - to the point where I seriously craved McDonalds. During this break I’ve been eating lots of seafood and meat at home, and now I’m deciding what I want to do once I return to school. In the end, I really dislike labels, so I think I will try to be a “flexitarian” and just be aware of my diet’s impact on the planet, but not deny myself anything.
Thanks for commenting!! It’s so true that labels turn us off from eating what we really want. Good for you for listening to your body!
I was vegetarian for about 6 months or so, but then I had to drop it due to health issues. It’s about what makes you feel good and how healthy it is for you. I don’t think that anyone else is in a position to judge what choices you make about what kind of food you choose to put into your body. in the end, you’re going to eat what YOU want. They’re not going to eat it for you. If you eat 10 batches of cookies during the holidays, that’s YOUR choice. no one else is going to suffer the consequences for you etc. it’s your life, live it the way you want.
that being said, though, I feel fuller when I have beef. I don’t like to eat too much pork, but I’d choose beef as my main source of protein/satiation when it comes to animal products any day. I like chicken for lower-calorie options but beef is the way to go, for me.
Sounds like we have similar tastes- I’m not a fan or pork and chicken is okay, but if I’m going to eat meat it’s mostly beef. Which is hard to think about because cows are adorable, haha.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and being so honest about your choices. I have dabbled in veganism/vegetarianism and never was able to last that long. But I think you’re definitely right-red meat isn’t something you should eat for every meal, but in moderation, it’s okay.
Right now I’m considering a gluten-free diet (from the advice of my dr) and I’m a little nervous of how much it will restrict my eating choices.
I just recently started eating meat again after 2 years and I’ve noticed all the same things. Its nice being able to eat where ever you want without looking up the menu ahead of time and having a variety of options instead of one or two. I too convinced myself meat was unhealthy and used it as an output for the eating disorder I thought I had “rid myself of”. I’m a lazy 21 year old college student and spending time preparing meals and having “special food” instead of just going in for groceries and eating with my roommates was getting annoying. I’m less hungry and have put on more muscle since making the switch.
I’m the same way with burgers which is pretty funny, everyones like “I could never go vegetarian because I would miss chicken too much!” Nope. I missed bacon cheeseburgers. A burger and a beer is my all time favorite meal now.
Amen to everything, especially the burger and beer part
This is such a great post! I really relate to a lot of what you said, about personal choices and the ethics involved in eating meat. I was a vegetarian for about a year, even though I didn’t like to tell people that, because everyone attaches so much meaning to that label. For me, the most positive experience was the fact that I was forced to be so much more creative in the kitchen, rather than just grill a chicken breast or something. Then one day, I just decided to eat meat again, and that works for me. I learned so much about cooking during that experience though, and I now love vegetables!
I can’t help but wonder if any added energy/satiety you’ve gained from deciding to reintroduce meat into your diet has anything to do with the fact you mentioned you had gained a bit of weight in culinary school. The satiety might be from that rather than deciding to include meat into your diet. Just saying.
I agree that that could be part of the reason, but I don’t think it’s all of it. I started noticing how much fuller I felt within a week or two of eating meat, and at that point I’d only gained a pound or two. Plus, I’ve gained a decent amount of weight over the past few years, and I’ve never noticed my satiety increasing as much as I did in this situation. Being a few pounds heavier probably DOES decrease hunger, but I’d also attribute that feeling to eating more protein. Good point though!
Awesome post and thanks for sharing your insights. I have spent a lifetime eating mostly plants. A little fish some years of my life, a little bit of chicken as a kid, but really, mostly plants. For some years that’s been vegetarian, some vegan; I am back to being vegetarian after about 5 yrs as a vegan and I miss cooking with butter and eggs and dairy and I miss eating those things in my treats. I don’t sit down to a plate of eggs and toast with butter and wash it down with whole milk, but in baking..sometimes the real stuff is just..awesome to work with as raw ingredients.
To each her own where she stands on it all. We all do what we can to feel as good as we can in both mind, body, and spirit and make choices we can not only live with, but thrive with. Kudos on finding what works for you and posting honestly about it all!
LOVE THIS POST!!! Go Gabs
Couldn’t of said it better myself!
I can’t believe I used to eat vegan so strictly. I think I got maybe 30 (if that?) grams of protein a day. And a whole lot of carbs. Good carbs , but still..just way too much. I considered myself a ‘healthy’ vegan but something was just off. I craved sugar ALL the time, my body was begging for some protein!
Now I eat chicken, fish, or eggs.. and yogurt at least twice a day and feel so good, thriving with 80-90 grams of protein a day now. I felt really similiar as you too when I started eating meat again, I was all about the RED meat. I couldn’t believe how fantastic a high quality hamburger tasted and how much I preferred it over chicken!
I’m so glad you posted this and figured out what is best for you!
I think any food is fine in smaller portions. My grandma is 88 and has eaten junk food her entire life and has hardly any health problems. The key is she eats smaller portions. That’s what I do with meat.
Ha, my grandparents are the same. Healthy to them means Snackwells- and God bless them for it, because I wish I had their “food is fuel and sometimes it’s a treat” mentality.
I really appreciate your reflection on your changing dietary choices. I recently have been questioning my vegetarianism. Like you, I’ve never been a big meat eater which made it easy to give it up. I actually realized that I hadn’t eaten meat in a month and then decided to become a veg! I kept it up because I felt great! However, since my elimination of meat coincided with a significant decrease in my dairy intake, I think I felt great due to the change in dairy consumption rather than meat consumption.
I’ve definitely noticed that without meat in my diet, I feel ravenously hungry ALL THE TIME so it’s definitely interesting to hear that you’ve had the same experience.
Did you get a lot of questions/comments/negativity from others when starting to eat meat again?
No, not really. A few people have defended vegetarianism from an ethical standpoint, which I can absolutely see the validity of, but most people have just been supportive of my choices!
I love this. I Think you should eat what makes you feel the best!
ahhh I can relate with so much of this. I used to cut everything- meat, sugar, refined carbs, anything artificial. hard diet to follow, and expensive too. Then I had a Coke Zero for the first time in a while, and a homemade cookie from a friend- what am I DOING I thought? WHy CANT I have this stuff? It was nuts!
I still eat healthy, but def allow myself treats! Whats life without a little fun
I love Coke Zero
well said girl! love your attitude and outlook on food and food choices. we feel everyone is different and need different things. we wish the world was perfect too so we all could eat what we would like without any guilt of where it came from or how it was made. but not sure if we will ever get there, so in the mean time we all just have to do our best and enjoy food
and all be grateful that we have the chance to eat amazing food!
HUGS
This is a fantastic post; really well-written and articulate.
I was so excited when you tweeted about writing this, given that I knew what I was posting today. I hope that I experience all the same things - more freedom, less picky, more satisfied. So encouraging!
I couldn’t believe the coincidences in our posts. So funny!
Love this post! I think it’s wonderful that you’ve embraced a “less picky” diet, and had a more fulfilling experience during culinary school, no doubt. I started eating fish again, mainly salmon because I happen to love it, earlier this year, and I’ve eaten some chicken and turkey more recently when I had a craving. I also eat eggs just about every single day. I love them. I can relate to much of what you wrote here, and I appreciate your honest, well-written post.
I’ve loved reading about your transition from life as a student to a chef and everything you’ve learned/experienced thus far. I, too, started eating meat here and there after I graduated and went home. I don’t eat it often, but I do enjoy it from time to time…and really enjoy it!
Exactly! I like the “really enjoy it” comment
Great blog. It was an interesting read. I personally could not give up meat cause it is what seems to keep me full and satisfied in a meal. What I’ve changed is I try as best as I can not to eat any processed foods. I eat fresh or frozen fruits and veggies, whole grains and lean proteins. Basically I follow the clean eating rules. It’s given me more energy to eat this way and my skin has cleared up as well. Look forward to your next post.
I have to say this is probably my very favorite post of yours. I love it! A few weeks ago I noticed that I was trying to be a vegetarian runner…it’s not me. I don’t eat a lot of meat, but it’s nice to not have to scrutinize every thing on a menu or worse at someone’s house when I want to eat. I think eating everything, but watching portion sizes (well for me since I’m really overweight) and keeping everything in balance is a very healthy way to live life!!!
Looking forward to reading more from you in the coming year, happy 2012!!!
Awesome post Gabriela! I think you raised some really great points in this post! When I started reading blogs 2 years ago, I cut out red meat not because I wanted to, but because I thought it was the “healthy” thing to do - you’re right that it definitely stemmed from orthorexic thoughts for me too! But I started eating it again when I started my nutrition program and realized how many amazing nutrients are in it. Yes, it has more saturated fat and cholesterol but I think the pros outweigh the cons. Plus I always feel amazing after I eat red meat - it’s like I can actually feel the iron giving me energy haha.
Anyways, I’m so happy for you that you’re liking your decision to eat meat again - it sounds like you’re really enjoying food more than ever now!
I’ve noticed the same thing about red meat- it’s supposed to be so “unhealthy,” but I can really feel a difference in my energy levels when I do eat it. I’ve actually always admired your blog because you eat such WHOLE foods, meat included!
I’ve been a lacto-vegetarian (I have maybe about a quart of milk a week) for 24 years now and am happy with it. The trigger was ethical - meeting a pig, recognizing how much smarter it was than a dog and realizing I couldn’t draw the line. Most of my friends don’t know I eat this way unless they have me over for dinner as I don’t make a big deal about it. My wife is a hardcore meat eater, so we prepare many of our dishes separately, but no big deal.
For me it is an easy choice. I fill up, can make a lot of interesting food, and my doctor says I’m one of the healthiest people he’s met. It works for me from an ethical and sustainable point of view. But I realize there are people whose bodies aren’t happy with this sort of diet - probably a lot of people as the “failure” rate for people trying to stick with being a vegetarian or vegan is extremely high.
each to their own
In school we learned about how different body types and personalities go better with different diets. It’s really interesting! I think some people definitely do have bodies that thrive on vegetarianism. I don’t like the idea of “failing” at vegetarianism, though, because I think that you can be a successful vegetarian or a successful almost-vegetarian who eats meat or fish or whatever every now and then. It all depends on your goals and needs!
That’s exactly why I had become a vegetarian (well, pescatarian anyway) and stayed one for about four years… I wouldn’t say I had an eating disorder but I just cut it out completely so I wouldn’t have to fuss over if I should eat something or not. Not exactly the best reason! I went back to meat like a year ago and you’re right, it DOES taste better, especially since I know how to cook now!
Great post! I’ve been seriously considering meat again after 2 years. Lately, I’ve been getting cravings for it (never happened before) and I’m thinking life is too short not to enjoy meat from time to time. I’m just nervous I’ll get sick or something. Any kind of meat make you feel sick after going back to it?
P.S- if you ever back in NYC, we all should plan a meet-up again
Nope! I worried that I might get sick, but I didn’t at all. I started with a turkey sandwich though, so it was mild and not to fatty or hard to digest.
Such a great and honest post Gabriela. I’ve thought so many times about going back to meat, but there are just too many ethical and environmental reasons floating around in my head that keeps me from doing it. But you don’t need to defend yourself and I applaud you for your choice!
And you have such an amazing dedication to animals and the environment- I think for you, it’s so much more than just food, it’s the big picture of it. You truly BELIEVE in vegetarianism, and that’s so awesome! I think for me it was more of just a restrictive behavior.
like you, I’ve bounced around from being an omnivore to vegetarian to vegan to veg again then pescatarian. then, after 3 months of living in Europe, I suddenly really really wanted a burger. I hadn’t had one in almost a decade, but I really craved one. so I ate one. then, I had another a few days later. I was traveling through all of these countries and meat is such a part of their identity. plus it tastes pretty darn good. I wasn’t as tired or grumpy as I had been, and I realized that I had probably been pretty malnourished trying to be a vegetarian in Scandinavia. I still wasn’t totally comfortable with eating meat, knowing as much as I do about the industry and the millions of reasons why we shouldn’t eat meat. however, European standards are way different than American ones, and I think that my body was doing much better with animal protein than it ever did with nuts or soy. now I’m back in the States and am kind of confused about how I want to eat now. I have no problem going back to my vegetarian ways, but I have farms down the street from me that sell chickens that I wouldn’t have a problem eating. I’ve always thought that dietary habits depend on your situation in life, and right now I could go a number of ways. it’s not good to have a series of rules that restrict your experiences, especially if you doubt them in any way.
props to you gabriela. posting your food on the internet for all to scrutinize is a weird thing. sometimes its just easier to omit certain meals than explain my reasons for eating eggs, but i find myself doing that (so bizarre). because of various food sensitivities i have, im not able to eat things like others are and yet, i still dont entirely understand my gut so im constantly trying new variations of mostly plant based diets. as a result people comment with a host of questions - some rude some not - but still, its odd that people feel compelled to chip in on such a personal thing. im just blogging to share my trials and whatnot, and if its helpful to others great, if not, oh well. being exposed to the whole internet reading world is both a blessing and curse…
so that said, i completely understand where you are coming from.
do your thang, dont stress about what others think and just try and live your life in the best way you can.
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